APPROACHING WOMEN WITH CONFIDENCE
(….TIME TO GET RID OF YOUR APPROACH ANXIETY FOR GOOD!)
Here’s a few questions that you need to answer with total honesty:
Do you always seem to find excuses that stop you from approaching women?
- Are some of those excuses extremely creative?
- Has approach anxiety stopped you from going for what you want on more than several occasions?
- Are you sick with feeling frustrated every time you allow approach anxiety win?
- Have you convinced yourself that women will think you’re a creep if you approach them?
- Is the approach anxiety incongruent with the confidence you display in other areas of your life?
- Do you often find yourself feeling that most women are out of your league?
- Do you convince yourself that women won’t want to talk to you, no matter what you say?
- Do you excessively rely on online dating in order to avoid approaching all together?
- Have you settled for women that you don’t really want out of comfort and inaction?
- Whenever you go to approach, do you feel a knot in your stomach that spreads and feels you with dread?
- Does approach anxiety make you feel inadequate and Beta?
- Do you feel if you just got rid of the anxiety, you would increase your chances dramatically?
If you answer YES to just ONE of those questions then what Mark J is going to share with you next will strike a major chord with you.
“I was hopeless with women and it didn’t make sense!”
I had always been considered to be a fairly high achiever. I did well at university, got a job in a highly competitive industry, which required me to have a high level of confidence and self-belief.I had a large and vibrant social circle and was known amongst my friends and familyas the life and soul of the party. Yet whenever I tried to approach a women that I was attracted to, all that confidence would disappear, and as a result I was left filled with nerves, dread and a strange feeling of inadequacy. I was able to conjure up the best excuses in order to keep me from going for what I wanted.
IT WAS SO CONFUSING!
Why was I unable to transfer all that confidence I had into this one particular area of my life? One of the most, if not THE most important areas of my life.
I was so frustrated and felt very alone.
What I didn’t realise back then, was that I was suffering from what 70% of the male population suffer from too. Approach Anxiety.
APPROACH ANXIETY SUCKS. GET THAT CR*P OUT OF YOUR LIFE!
Approach anxiety was cr*p. I hated it. It’s that horrible feeling of dread and fear that starts in the pit of your stomach and finally works its way up to your brain. Approach anxiety disabilitates you,and paralyzes you from taking action. Approach anxiety stops you from taking those beautiful opportunities that life sometimes presents you with, and leaves you stuck in some unwanted reality that you feel powerless to do anything about.
It stops you from fulfilling your duty as a man of action. It makes you feel like you’re worthless and very often it can actually make you feel really really bitter.
Perhaps the least attractive quality in a man.
But the difference between me and the majority of those 70%, was that I wasn’t prepared to let approach anxiety beat me. I wasn’t prepared to only date the girls that were introduced to me, or sleep with the girls I didn’t truly want or desire, and I certainly wasn’t prepared to have to always turn to alcohol in order to sleep with the last drunk girl in the club.
I knew my potential was worth more than this.
THE ONE THAT GOT AWAY
I was no longer prepared to stand back like a pussy of a man and allow approach anxiety to fill my head with confidence sabotaging excuses, whilst a beautiful woman slipped away into a crowd never to be seen again.
I know this sounds like an exaggeration, but every single one of those women that approach anxiety had convinced me that I wasn’t good enough to speak to you, could have been more than just one night of hot screwing.
She could have been a short and sweet affair.
She could have been my girlfriend who wore my t-shirt in bed on the weekends.
She could have been my wife..
The point is, no one knows, and no one ever will know because approach anxiety snatches those opportunities from us forever.
THE TURNING POINT
On a cold November day in 2008, after sitting at a train station and watching the most beautiful girl I had ever seen get on a train and leave my reality forever ( I had spent 5 minutes of convincing myself not to talk to her) I made the decision to start taking control of approach anxiety and find out how I could turn it into a positive trigger.
I didn’t want to try and neutralise it or bury it deep inside and pretend it didn’t exist, because like most guys, that’s what I realised I had mistakingly attempted to do for a very long time.
I actually wanted take this negative reaction and turn it into a positive motivator.
I wanted to swap Approach Anxiety with Approach Excitement.
Even though I was confident in front of the camera, I hid my secret approach anxiety in the other crucial area of my life.
FORGET EVERYTHING YOU’VE BEEN TOLD.
The whole process of going from a reality of approach anxiety and missed opportunities, to one of happiness and true self confidence, took me years to achieve. The reason it took so long was because I had no road map to follow, no formal instruction process to guide me, no expert to show me what I needed to do.
I spent a long stretch of time trying and testing out methods I had read in books. I experimented with material from pick up artists. I interviewed renowned experts in the field of self confidence and approach anxiety and put their advice into practice. I tried hypnosis, I signed up to a stand up comedy course, I even booked a ‘wellness’ holiday at a yoga resort in Bali, hoping it would help me learn the art of controlling my nervous energy that I felt whenever I was about to approach.
Did any of this stuff help?
Some of it helped, sure! But a lot of it was over complicated bullshit, which sounded good in theory but was totally useless in reality! So it took a long time for me to filter out the garbage that didn’t work, and streamline all the gold advice that was left over to make it easier and more enjoyable to apply.
DON’T WASTE YOUR TIME DOING WHAT I DID.
(Because I’ve done all that part for you!!!!)
During this time I came up with my own organic theories, my own experiments and exercises, and I gave each one my 100% and eventually after years of practice, adjusting, reviewing and enhancing, I finally created the perfect step by step system that set me free from my approach anxiety, and I finally had real confidence to not only be able to talk to any woman, anytime and in any environment, but I also had the ability to make a strong and sustainable impression on them, which generated some beautiful results with some really beautiful women.
I enjoyed experimenting with my new system
Very quickly I began generating incredible results with very little effort.
I managed to get all those years of figuring out what works and what doesn’t work into an easy to apply system that could produce real results in a small amount of time.
So I went on to share my step by step guide with other men out there, who also wanted to break free from the chains of approach anxiety, and after just a few months, I had built up a small but strong reputation for this. Eventually I got head hunted by the world’s leading female attraction and dating coach for men, Kezia Noble, and she helped me to take it to a whole new level, and share my system with a much larger audience.
I became a key member of her team of instructors and experts in 2009, and since then I have gone on to help thousands of men from across the globe beat their approach anxiety once and for all.
I love sharing my system with the students on our live events. The team all add something unique to the training.
GET ACCESS TO YOUR STEP BY STEP GUIDE HERE
EXCUSES WILL NO LONGER BE JUSTIFIED
Whenever you see a beautiful woman that you want to go and start a conversation with, do you end up filling your mind with questions like:
“What do I say next?”
“What if she says she’s in a rush?”
“How do I know she hasn’t got a boyfriend?”
“What if she thinks I’m a creep?”
“What if she prefers taller/black/white/older/younger men?”
“What should my opening line be?”
“How do I stop my nervous energy showing itself through my body language?”
These are very common questions that need to be answered and addressed properly, otherwise they can spiral into a storm of excuses which will end up keeping you trapped in the prison of approach anxiety.
The problem here is that most of these practical and sensible questions don’t get answered properly, which is why men often find themselves locked into a pattern they don’t like or want.
In this e-book Mark J will answer those questions with clarity, refreshing honesty and most importantly he will give you the advice and solution to those questions and dilemmas that you have.
Mark J and Kezia Noble will not be dishing out abstract theories or nice sounding ‘empty sentiments’ either. So be assured this is a very practical hand book with extremely easy to apply exercises that if followed, will destroy your approach anxiety and give you the ability to approach women, anytime, anywhere with effortless confidence.
- DON’T LET APPROACH ANXIETY WIN.
- STOP TAKING SH*T ADVICE FROM YOUR FRIENDS
- STOP FINDING EXCUSES TO KEEP YOU TRAPPED
- NEVER ACCEPT YOUR CURRENT REALITY UNTIL IT MAKES YOU HAPPY
+ GET REAL SOLUTIONS TO YOUR PROBLEMS AND EXCUSES
+ TAKE ACTION TO END THE CYCLE OF DISAPPOINTMENT
+ ACCEPT THERE’S A BETTER WAY
+ START GETTING REAL RESULTS WITH WOMEN NOW.
If for whatever reason you are unable to attend one of the live programs, but are determined to end your approach anxiety once and for all, then this step by step guide is perfect for your situation